So I want to make a clarification. I don’ t think the average person in Syria would have a problem with the fact that I am Jewish. I don’t even think they would have a problem with all my time in Israel/Palestine once I explained my uber lefty leanings. The reason I can’t tell any one here who I am or where I have spent most of my time the last few years is because of the security forces in the government. From what I have read it seems they are not as bad as they used to be, but there is still a sense here that there is always someone listening, and while I would like to trust every new person I meet, there is really no way for me to know who they really are. I know I’m making this sound like a spy movie, and its really not. I just wanted to make it clear that the average Syrian does not hate Jews and it’s only for fear of being over heard by the wrong person that I stay quiet.
Along those same lines I wanted to share two stories to give a small picture in to the minds of an average Syrian. Keep in mind though that my sampling is very small so maybe average is not the right word. The first story made me a bit sad but I think was positive in the end.
I was teaching my second level English class, which consists of two teenage boys who are cousins, and two University students one woman and one man. I was teaching the words most and least, after teaching any vocabulary I try to get the students to use the vocabulary as much as possible in sentences, or by answering questions, so when I asked them which was the least popular football (soccer) team and the first answer was “the Jewish one” I was not prepared. This was not the first time I had heard someone fail to make the distinction between Jewish and Israeli, but it never gets easier. I decided, especially since the student who said this is about 16, that I needed to educate, at least, my four students on the difference between Israelis and Jews, and why it is important to make the distinction. In the end the instigator apologized, and I felt a little better.
Story number two is a little more positive. I mentioned my wonderful Arabic teacher here before. Some times I think if it wasn’t for her I would have just given up and gone home early. She is truly above and beyond any teacher I have had. She has taken me all over Aleppo, brought me to her house, and to the school she works at. She has become a close friend as well as my Arabic teacher. She is Muslim, wears Hijab (head scarf) and doesn’t drink eat pork etc…, but she is very open about other peoples life styles, and she is now the fourth person who knows I am Jewish, although I haven’t mentioned my time in Israel/Palestine yet I probably will before I leave. She has a master’s degree in Semitic languages, so she actually knows Hebrew, only biblical Hebrew but still impressive. I’ve had a feeling they she knew something for awhile, because since she knows Hebrew she probably notices that most of my grammatical and even some vocabulary mistakes in Arabic are because I am thinking in Hebrew. I still didn’t want to say anything though until one day after she took me to the school she works at.
The school is a Muslim elementary school on the out skirts of Aleppo. It is called Al Quds School or Jerusalem School. It was strange for me to walk in to a school in Syria with a giant picture of the Dome of the Rock on the front gates, but I didn’t think too much about it until a few hours later during the third class. I don’t even remember how it came up, but some how the topic of Jews and Israel was raised, and I heard my Arabic teacher say almost the same thing to her students as I had to my small English class just a few days before. For me it was uplifting to hear a Arab teacher explain to her Arab students that there was a difference between Jews and Israelis and that is was important to make the distinction. Also at one point one of the students asked her if I was Jewish because of my name, which is also an Arabic name, but as I am obviously not Arab they were curious. Her response was that she didn’t know, but that maybe I was and it shouldn’t matter any ways, people are people no matter what. I wish I could have video taped this and shown it to all those people in America who think all children learn in school in the Middle East is how to hate Americans. Those people should really meet my Arabic Teacher.
It is so sad to think there used to be sizeable Jewish populations in Damascus, Aleppo, and a few other cities, and now they are all gone except for about 40 left in Damascus. There is no example of a Jew who is not an Israeli for Syrians to see in the streets. Most of my students have never left the Middle East or even Syria, so it is more than likely they have never met a Jew, or if they did they didn’t know, for example me. I would love to tear off my mask and tell them that I am sad I wont be celebrating Purim or Pesach this year, but its really not a good idea, so I will have to do what I can in the confines of my public identity, and hope that there are enough other teachers like my Arabic teacher to stop this generation from growing up thinking Jew and Israeli are synonymous, and that a person’s religion or nationality matters more than their humanity.
Actually the way things are going right now I think we could use a few more teachers like that in America as well.